Monday, July 28, 2014

How Life is Seen By the Many

A quick post before I go to bed.

People say to spend our time wisely and do things that we won't regret because we only have one life to live. Fact is we have a lot of lives. We can decide to change the course of our life every single day. Be a different person today, and a different one tomorrow. Depends on how you want to live. My point is, some people say that a woman starts living when she's married. Men haven't lived until they've been drunk. Being too careful in life is no fun. Hesitating is no fun. Everything is about fun because what good is the life given to you if you're not enjoying it?

How to Balance Boyfriend and School

A few weeks ago one of my friends asked me how do I balance my life between my boyfriend and school. It's not that difficult for me since I have the perks of having a great and awesome boyfriend.

  • I don't stress myself on balancing the equation. - I let this fly.
  • I trust my boyfriend that he won't do anything stupid.
  • School is school and whatever grade I get is all I could give.
Bonus:
My boyfriend already graduated college and is currently working far from where I am now. Yeah, LDR (Long Distance Relationship)
  • He's busy with work in the morning. - Means I don't have to worry about missing his calls.
  • He cares for my education. - Reminds me constantly about school work.
  • We belong in the same college. - I can have further explanations and insights on my diff. subjects.
  • He's smart. - I can ask him whatever I want.
  • He offered that if I had any questions or need any help with school, he's there. - All hail my boyfriend. 

Collegiate Confidence

Ever since I got into college all I could think about was starting fresh and forgetting all the mistakes and regrets I had in high school. I never though about finding love, wanting to be one of those contestants in pageants and representing my college, nor did I wonder if I'd be able to raise my confidence. But I did.

I found the all-most right peers for me, I'm still not sure if they're THE ONE. They make me feel superior at some point, especially because I'm the most fluent in the English language in the group and they look up to me for that. But it's because of them that I'm motivated to keep up with my studies because all of them are grade oriented and they worry a lot about school.

Things changed for me ever since my boyfriend came along. His name is Aljon and he's four years older than me. I've never met a boy like him before. He's so open about himself and he barely hides his feelings and reactions. He usually says what his mind is saying. I look up to him and I've never accepted myself this much before. Plus he helps me a lot with my studies.

Our Finance1 teacher is one of my favorite teachers right now. I like to attend her class and I'm always energized no matter what. I'm putting pressure on myself since the major I'd be taking is Financial Management but she makes things really easy. I'm not afraid to speak up in class which I guess is why my mind is not in a little box during her period.

All of these have contributed to my success in gaining more confidence and I thank these people for helping me achieve that. Having people to push you will only take you half way, it's within your will to meet your standards.